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Ok...so when I first created my account...I had medium length hair.I had been without a perm for about a year and the other day I decided to get some cut because of my split ends.  Well the lady cut me down to my new growth....I really like it. Its super curly and soft....only 1 problem:The front of my head is still strait. I will upload pix. but I dont know what to do with it now.Bu,t I love it and the thought of what it could be excites me.  I love it, just a little scared.



Shea Moisture products give me the right amount of moisture without the greasy feeling.  Boy, I love Shea Moisture!!!!


The very first time I did the big chop (BC) was in 1997.  I was newly married, had a 6 year old daughter and had just given birth to my 2nd child (a son).  I was looking for a simple hair style that allowed me to not spend much time on it since I was having to juggle married life, a full time job and 2 children. 
As of today, I have recently converted over from permed hair to going back natural.  I did the BC on August 12, 2010.  Even though I’ve done the BC on at least 3 other occasions, rockin’ the boy cut then growing it out and wearing a texturizer look only to ultimately go back to permed hair ------ this time is so different.
I was recently diagnosed on July 29, 2010, by my dermatologist with Central Centrifugal Cicatricial Alopecia (Scarring Alopecia) after suffering for approximately 10 long years with an abnormal scalp itch that would not go away regardless to what hair products that I used for itchy scalp.
I initially thought I was allergic to hair dyes in hair weaves so I stopped having my hair braided.  Then, I thought I was having an allergic reaction to hair grease because it felt as though I was greasing my scalp with ants after applying the grease.  I would have to immediately wash it out.  I used dandruff shampoos even though I had no signs of dandruff and even used scalpicin for the scalp itch. To no avail, I had no relief.
As the years went by, the itch progressed.  I went to a dermatologist who took one look at my scalp and said my scalp looked cleaned and healthy and that it didn’t appear to look like a fungus problem but he prescribed a shampoo and scalp topical solution as a fungal treatment.  I ended up going back to the same dermatologist after completion of the prescription and seen a different dermatologist in the same office who told me the same thing --- my scalp looked clean and healthy.  I asked for a scalp scrapping to be taken and looked at under the microscope to check to see if anything showed up – nothing did.  The doctor suggested that it may be stress or child-hood trauma that was trying to purge my body.  He prescribed a different shampoo, more scalp topical solution and an anti-depressant.  Ugh!!
All during the years of suffering from an itch that wouldn’t go away, I would go back to the BC hoping to get relief from not using hair perms.  I also used shampoos with tea tree oil and coal tar.  Nothing worked!!!!  I began to accept that I was just going to have to live and deal with this scalp itch.  I wasn’t losing any hair, so I chalked it up to stress related issues.
I finally woke up one morning in July and God put it on my mind that this is not normal and not to accept it.  I called a totally different dermatology office to get a second opinion and they set me an appointment for July 28, 2010.  I discussed with the nurse practitioner the problem I was suffering from and advised her how long I had been suffering.  She called the doctor in and he took a look at my head and said with the naked eye – my scalp looks clean and healthy but that 10 years was extremely too long to be dealing with this issue and to not have found out the exact cause of it.  He ordered for me to have my blood taken at the lab to rule out any underlying conditions that could cause scalp itch such as lupus and he had the nurse to take a scalp biopsy of the crown of my head since that was the area that the itch stemmed from the worst.  He also put a rush on the scalp biopsy to receive results the next day and I was blessed to finally get an answer to my itching question or shall I say --- a name to the unknown problem that taunted me every day and night of my life for the past 10 years.
Central Centrifugal Cicatricial Alopecia (Scarring Alopecia) refers to a collection of hair loss disorders.  In some instances, the hair loss is gradual without noticeable symptoms and can go unnoticed for a long time.  Other instances, the hair loss is associated with inflammation, severe itching, burning, and pain, and is rapidly progressive.
Thank God that I have no noticeable hair loss and that my scarring alopecia is still considered to be in the beginning stages even though it took so long to get a definitive diagnosis.  There is no known cure for scarring alopecia but the treatments that are used could slow the progression of the disease and even go into remission.  The treatment is a long process and anytime you have returning symptoms the treatment process will have to start over with whatever treatment method you and your doctor choose to tackle the scarring alopecia inflammation with.
Currently, my treatment has been 3 months straight of strong antibotics to clear up the scalp inflammation along with a strong steriodal topical solution.  I have about 6 more weeks of treatment then I have to return to the dermatology for follow-up.  When this treatment is completed, I pray that I my scarring alopecia goes into remission.  I am sooooo tired of swallowing a huge pill once a day.
Now, with all that being said --- it is recommended that I steer clear of harsh hair treatments such as perms, dyes, tight hair braids, hot combs and other heated tools and shampoos that my be irritating to the scalp.  I am now on a natural hair journey for life and I am actually enjoying learning about my hair.

So, it's been a couples days since I did my BC and I'm loving it!!!. I have not done much with it as it is really short. I co-wash every other day cause these days I'm mostly inside. I live in the Caribbean where is either, sunny, windy or rainy. My hair is 4a/4b and very dry. I'm not sure what regimens I will be using yet to combat the dryness but have been doing my research.

I will start my trial and error phase when my BC is at least a month. If anyone have any ideas, please feel free to make suggestions.

I do need to restock on accessories for both my hair and clothes, also make up. I have put myself aside somewhat since my son was born. Think is high time I start to get back on top of my game. :)

Well that's that for now. Looking for your suggestions

Mrs. TSII

Peace, Love and Nappyness


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Going-Natural.com likes to thank Maria Thompson for inviting us at the free Going Natural Twist and Curves workshop.

It was wonderful! We had a full house and the audience was great. Seeing Maria at work was an inspiration. She passionately shares her nappy knowledge and offers her services for anyone interested in twists, twist-outs, flat twists, cornrows and yes locs. You name it, she does it. She also does what she calls "Locs without commitment". That means loc extensions.

I have known Maria for years. She is always positive, on the go and inspiring. I knew she was a great stylist but the style she created that day for the hair show next door was just breathtakingly outstanding! 

Again, thanks for inviting and thanks to a wonderful audience.


So I have been doing a lot of research on products for 4b hair, big chops and do's & don'ts. After doing all that, I decided not to wait until next week and I went to my barber today and took it all off.

I feel great!!! My dad watch me like I'm crazy (LOL)

Now I have to go get me some accessories and restock on makeup. Looking forward to my natural journey and a new me.

Will take some pics tomorrow and post them.

Happy to be Nappy!!!!


I always love dealing with my hair. Most the times I would do it myself, whether it's weaving, braids, relaxer, you name it, I can do it myself to my hair. I never hold a style for more than a month, I'm surprise my hair never fell out.

I was pregnant with my son 2008/09. My hormones was my biggest problem, it was all over. I didn't feel like doing anything including my hair so I decided to cut it all off, that was about Jan 09 end. I manage to carry my hair natural for about 4 months before I got fed up and permed it again. My friends thought I was crazy but I just didn't care. Within 2 months of the perm, off the hair went again in June 09. I decided that was it, I'm doing the natural thing, I'm going to love myself and my hair.

I was doing pretty well, my hair grew like wildfire. By April 2010, I had a full head of hair but boy was it hard. I have 4b hair and it's not the easiest to deal with. I never read up on how to look after it, most the time is was dry and brittle and I got fed up again. On May 13th 2010, I went to my hairdresser and permed it again. My excuse was that I couldn't find time to look after my hair because I had my son to look after.

It's now exactly 5 months after I permed it and I hate it, I'm not happy (like I said, it's confusing).

I MISS MY NATURAL HAIR!!!!! I hate been under a dryer, I hate when rain falls I have to be ever so careful not to get wet, I have to be very careful how I sweat at the gym cause I don't want to sweat the perm......it's like been tied down.

I permed my hair on August 24th 2010 for the last time. I am doing my research and working towards my BC for the last time. TIME TO BE FREE AGAIN!!!!

 

 


Today, I am feeling pretty good about my journey to achieve the "Natural Hair" that the Lord has blessed me with.  Everything he made is GOOD.  I have been reading everything that I can on natural hair, natural hair care and natural products.  I have been doing co-washing 1-2 times a week.  I have also been moisturizing like crazy.  I have not completely
stopped the heat, (it's only been about 7 weeks now), but I am almost there.

On Friday, I will be getting twists.  I have 2 issues.  My hair is very fine and thin and I also
had been using temporary color on my gray.   Any advice on these, especially the gray.
I do not want to keep putting color in my hair, however, I am not ready to embrace my Gray
yet either.  One thing at a time:)


Hi,

 

Does anyone know of a person or a salon in Macon or Warner Robins, GA that does loc extensions?  Or even Atlanta.  I don't want to go that far but will if I have to. thanks