dewdrop said...
Looking great! Congrats on reaching your 5 year mark. Do you plan to stay loc'd another 5 years?
Thanks! I plan on staying locked. I have no. desire. whatsoevahhh to play with my loose hair. I had fun but I truly locked for a reason. I did not lock bc I longed for locks nor admired them. It was the ultimate protective hairstyle so I signed up for it and do all that I would want to do with loose hair with my locks. I can do puffs, curls, ponies, braids/twist outs the whole nine.
When my hair is wet it is soo heavy;but,I try to pile it up on top of my head and tie a scarf around the base of it or braids in an up-bun until it dries....tks for asking
I sincerely locked because I know that locking would be the singular most effective method of protecting my natural hair. I have extremely fragile hair and, God willing, I have no intent of cutting my locks off. Will I cut? Yes, probably into a styles but not completely off and away, unless something life threatening happens that impacts my ability to keep them. I hope this encourages someone out there to hang in there.I chose to lock when I was tired of my loose hair. I did not enjoy my loose hair anymore. Quite frankly, I resented it. It took me away from my children. It kept me away from social events and appointments as I sat under the dryer waiting for it to 'set', or stayed away from the public out of fear and retribution. I watched it poof and frizz up after 'setting' it all weekend and preparing it for a fly twist out. I watched my edges disappear to a rapid degree as I wore my afro puffs. I watched the crown of my head shread away from manipulations and break off to barely an inch of it's life. My arms grew weary of the the wrestling match to pull my hair back into a neat bun that would fit my corporate environment. My budget was hit be the constant product consumerism I was victim to. I was just tired of the thought, preparation, wear and tear of it all. And, I was ready to lock.
To this day I hold to this belief. Do NOT lock until you are ready to lock. How do you know when you're ready? when you are good and tired that's when. Yet, you are commited to your natural hair that's when. Not because you lust after someone's locks or you come str8 out of a perm. Lock when you are tired. Then, and only then will the locks be a part of you and not a hair style. There are other options, like extension locks to get if you are not committed to the journey.
Of course, In My Humble Opinion.
Keep it Knotty,
Chele, Author
